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An Open Letter To All My Fans - Finally I am Standing up for Myself
Blog | July 14, 2013
I didn’t think that I would have to deal with this, but it came to the point when I just have to stand up for myself. It came to my attention that my soon to be ex-husband wrote a post about our marriage in which he pictured me as an abusive monster that used him to get to Los Angeles only to dump him, dump BodyRock.Tv that we’ve build together and become a star. My stomach literally turned upside down when I read all of those horrible things he wrote about me that are absolutely not true. I keep being bullied by this man who took literally everything from me.
Here is my side of the story. Freddy and I have build BodyRock.Tv a fitness/personal blog that became very successful. We traveled, had fun, shot hundreds of workout videos that went viral on youtube. BodyRock.Tv was a very successful business that was making us a lot of money. It was insane. We had everything but home. I did not want to live in Canada and my husband did not want to live in Prague. We tried a little country in Mediterranean – Malta, but it still didn’t feel like home to either of us. In 2011 we were contacted by a large talent agency and production company from Los Angeles to discuss a possible business opportunity. It sounded great and we were both excited to move to L..A.
We moved to Los Angeles in May 2011 and rented an expensive house in West Hollywood for the entire year. While we did not close a deal with the production company and did not get representation from the talent agency, we both felt strong about BodyRock.Tv and wanted to keep growing. Our relationship on the other hand was not at all in good shape. It was not because I was a monster wife that would physically and emotionally abuse my husband. We had serious issues that caused disconnection on my part. I was not happy about the creative direction of our videos and the way I was being portrait and perceived. While I was happy about the numbers on youtube and growing business I was feeling more and more embarrassed about my sexualized image. Don’t get me wrong, I like sexy, and confident, but I don’t enjoy having camera close up my cleavage and elsewhere. That was also a reason why we did not get any sponsorships or representation by any large talent agency despite of the popularity online. I felt like our goals were different. I wanted a clean family friendly blog that people wouldn’t be embarrassed to share with their friends, and Freddy wanted to see bigger numbers. I felt like I was being controlled in every aspect of my life. I didn’t even have my own cellphone for the first few months in Los Angeles. Apparently it wasn’t needed. If anyone wanted to talk to me, they can call my husbands cell phone.
Another issue in our relationship was our intimacy. I was not as physical with my husband as he wanted me to be which led to frustrations on his part and disappointment and disconnection on mine. I couldn’t get a hug from him to be comforted, without him being sexual with me. I could no longer imagine to have family with this man. I knew that I would not be able to look into my children’s eyes and tell them that their dad is the love of my life.
I decided that the best thing for both of us would be to separate as a couple and remain best friends and business partners. While I can’t deny that Freddy was devastated by my decision, it was not true that he had to leave to his home town in Canada. I told him that our house was big enough for both of us. We had two separate bedrooms. I offered him that I would help him to get through the changes and that I would not be the first one to date other people if he decides to stay. I wanted him to be happy and I wanted us to keep growing BodyRock.Tv.
He decided to leave me in Los Angeles and went back to his home town in Canada with his family. I was fine with that and I have to say that I felt relieved and was excited for the new beginnings. Freddy and I were in touch every day and talked about BodyRock.Tv and how we are going to continue as business partners. We agreed on bringing in other girls as hosts of the workout videos. However my idea of hiring a camera guy to shoot my workout videos was denied by my husband. No one was allowed to shoot videos of me. That’s why you could see me doing only short intros to the workouts having my camera on tripod. I was also doing some nutrition and diet posts, but I felt very limited by not having anyone to help me. We were both feeling overwhelmed by the change, because we were used to working together and we were very good at working together.
Things got very tough when his new girlfriend Lisa Marie came to the picture. While I thought that him having a new girlfriend, a person that will be there for him, will make things a lot easier, I was wrong. Up until then, we were friends, partners and we were getting along. If you were following BodyRock.Tv back then you must have noticed that I have basically vanished right after her very first post. In December 2011, Freddy’s attitude towards me changed completely. He became incredibly mean, he denied me an access to BodyRock.Tv and all the social media we’ve build together. Since I had no access to our Canadian business account, and owned only 49% of the company, I was relying on him to pay me monthly dividends. My future was completely in his hands. When I asked for my dividends he told me to first sign a non-compete agreement. What that means is that I wouldn’t be allowed to ever have my own fitness blog or to ever do a workout video online. I felt like I was being controlled again and threatened on top of that. It was never my intension to leave BodyRock.Tv. I was forced to leave to keep my independence and dignity. He told me to lawyer up and the last email I got from him stated exactly this: “I want you to sell the company car that your mom is using. Aww, isn’t it horrible that your mom that has nothing won’t even have the car?” That my friends right there was the end of our friendship. I couldn’t believe it. Of course I did not sell the car and my mom still has it.
What happened next is that he wrote a post on BodyRock.Tv that would portray me as a bad person that betrayed him in every possible way. He wrote that he was being forced and manipulated to write the post about us breaking up. That was the post with the picture of us sitting on the front step of the house in West Hollywood. Just to let you know, nobody was forcing him to write what he did. While I was pushing for him to post the truth about us not being a couple, he wanted to write it in his own words and told me not to let anyone know that I left him. I was fine with that.
At that time, I decided that I will not give up and that I will continue doing what I love and he or nobody else will ever stop me. I contacted Darren from Watch it now entertainment, explained him the entire situation and asked him if he wants to be my partner. We clicked as friends immediately and we were on the same page when it comes to fitness, blogging and my image as a trainer. I got hired by his company and got my work visa instantly. After that, you know the story. We started shooting ZWOWs and I tried to get back on my feet. I can never thank Darren and his team at Watch It Now Entertainment enough, who all helped me when I had absolutely nothing. I am also forever thankful to my boyfriend who stood by me the entire time and gave me the kind of love and home that I have always dreamed off.
I filed for divorce in January 2012, however I am still waiting for the divorce to happen, because my husband is way too power hungry and wants my 49% of BodyRock.Tv which he thinks is worth his signature on our divorce papers and nothing more. I was also threatened by a letter from his lawyer that I might be deported back to Czech Republic if I won’t stop doing ZWOWS and sign the non-compete agreement with BodyRock.Tv. I guess he assumed that I didn’t get my visa.
I have received way more abuse from him in the form of online bullying. He said so many bad things about me on his Facebook and other social media and I have never stood up for myself. For some weird reason I thought that he is really not that kind of person and that maybe he’s just very hurt that I left him. I thought that he is being like that because he’s probably suffering. Now it got to the point that I am hundred percent certain that all that crap he writes about me is his cover up to justify the fact that he took everything from me and have been actively trying to destroy my career and my online presence. Here he is again with another post trying to hurt me. He didn’t take the most important part of me though–my faith, love, and will power.
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You are in inspiration and I am so happy for you that you got your life back and that you continue to fight for what is yours. Thank you for sharing your story.
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Everything he’s ever done has been in bad taste. What people loved about Body Rock was YOU. Your sweet nature outweighed the overly sexual workout videos. I couldn’t stand that site even one second after you left. When you walked away, you took the heart of that business with you. It’s an empty shell of what it used to be and he knows it. It’s too bad you had to go through such a hurtful situation but watching you SHINE through all of this is incredibly inspirational to all who follow you. There is always something wonderful happening even in the darkest moments. Keep doing what you do! WE ALL LOVE YOU!!!!!!!! <3
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We Love you Zuzka!! Freddy and Bodyrock are nothing without you. You and your sparkling personality were what got me hooked on bodyrock, and now ZWOWs! I tried to follow both after the split, but Lisa Marie seems like an annoying attempt to duplicate you. How funny to see her change her image to look more like you. Ha! Seems to me that you are so far out of his league in so many ways now, you deserve so much better! I haven’t liked the direction bodyrock has taken for a long time, but always loved your work. Keep it up, you’ve got the drive, heart and talent to succeed in whatever life throws you, including this nasty divorce!
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Zuzka te sigo desde tus primeros videos en la terraza y lo recuerdo todo. Es muy valiente para contar esta parte de tu historia. Me encanta lo que haces. Siempre me mantienen motivado tus videos, tu energia y has cambiado tantas vidas! No dejes que te depriman. Sigue adelante eres un alma hermosa y te mereces todo lo mejor!Un abrazo fuerte un fans que te sigue desde Ushuaia,Fin delMundo.
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Glad you landed back on your feet and are thriving, I wish you nothing but health, wealth and happiness. I am so disappointed in your ex he makes all of us Canadians look bad. (We’re not all selfish, self-serving douche-bags) HuGgSs!
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It takes a lot of courage to share a story like this. I can relate just going through a divorce myself. You have a lot of people that care about you, even if they are strangers and are rooting for you. Never stop standing up for yourself or fighting for what you believe in. It takes courage and strength and it sounds like you have both, nurture that and you can never fail. Take care and good luck.
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I am so glad you got away from the man. He has shown the world how petty he is and continues to be every time he put the victim hat on and talk badly about you. he is incredibly manipulative and it is obvious by the way he treats the old br community, your business partnership and marriage. If there wasn’t you freddy would have just been a guy with a camera.
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I just read his post, hard to understand why he wont let goof you and on top of that he would go out of his way to ruin your reputation.
I know things happen in a marriage some things that we come to regret eventually, however is not an excuse to share to the world details of what it should only involve you two. I hope he signs the divorce soon and wish the very best for you 🙂
Stay strong
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OMGosh!!! That’s interesting because since the beginning I thought that guy was a jerk!!! Shame of him!!!! You are the star!!! Camera men, there are plenty out there, but talent… Wish you all the best! XO from Florida!
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Zuz, it is time to put all of this behind you. Do not sign a non-compete. Rather get your own legal representative to draft an agreement in which your husband buys you out of bodyrock.tv. I would also ask the lawyer to assess your level of ownership in the company. Good luck and keep your courage !