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An Open Letter To All My Fans - Finally I am Standing up for Myself
Blog | July 14, 2013
I didn’t think that I would have to deal with this, but it came to the point when I just have to stand up for myself. It came to my attention that my soon to be ex-husband wrote a post about our marriage in which he pictured me as an abusive monster that used him to get to Los Angeles only to dump him, dump BodyRock.Tv that we’ve build together and become a star. My stomach literally turned upside down when I read all of those horrible things he wrote about me that are absolutely not true. I keep being bullied by this man who took literally everything from me.
Here is my side of the story. Freddy and I have build BodyRock.Tv a fitness/personal blog that became very successful. We traveled, had fun, shot hundreds of workout videos that went viral on youtube. BodyRock.Tv was a very successful business that was making us a lot of money. It was insane. We had everything but home. I did not want to live in Canada and my husband did not want to live in Prague. We tried a little country in Mediterranean – Malta, but it still didn’t feel like home to either of us. In 2011 we were contacted by a large talent agency and production company from Los Angeles to discuss a possible business opportunity. It sounded great and we were both excited to move to L..A.
We moved to Los Angeles in May 2011 and rented an expensive house in West Hollywood for the entire year. While we did not close a deal with the production company and did not get representation from the talent agency, we both felt strong about BodyRock.Tv and wanted to keep growing. Our relationship on the other hand was not at all in good shape. It was not because I was a monster wife that would physically and emotionally abuse my husband. We had serious issues that caused disconnection on my part. I was not happy about the creative direction of our videos and the way I was being portrait and perceived. While I was happy about the numbers on youtube and growing business I was feeling more and more embarrassed about my sexualized image. Don’t get me wrong, I like sexy, and confident, but I don’t enjoy having camera close up my cleavage and elsewhere. That was also a reason why we did not get any sponsorships or representation by any large talent agency despite of the popularity online. I felt like our goals were different. I wanted a clean family friendly blog that people wouldn’t be embarrassed to share with their friends, and Freddy wanted to see bigger numbers. I felt like I was being controlled in every aspect of my life. I didn’t even have my own cellphone for the first few months in Los Angeles. Apparently it wasn’t needed. If anyone wanted to talk to me, they can call my husbands cell phone.
Another issue in our relationship was our intimacy. I was not as physical with my husband as he wanted me to be which led to frustrations on his part and disappointment and disconnection on mine. I couldn’t get a hug from him to be comforted, without him being sexual with me. I could no longer imagine to have family with this man. I knew that I would not be able to look into my children’s eyes and tell them that their dad is the love of my life.
I decided that the best thing for both of us would be to separate as a couple and remain best friends and business partners. While I can’t deny that Freddy was devastated by my decision, it was not true that he had to leave to his home town in Canada. I told him that our house was big enough for both of us. We had two separate bedrooms. I offered him that I would help him to get through the changes and that I would not be the first one to date other people if he decides to stay. I wanted him to be happy and I wanted us to keep growing BodyRock.Tv.
He decided to leave me in Los Angeles and went back to his home town in Canada with his family. I was fine with that and I have to say that I felt relieved and was excited for the new beginnings. Freddy and I were in touch every day and talked about BodyRock.Tv and how we are going to continue as business partners. We agreed on bringing in other girls as hosts of the workout videos. However my idea of hiring a camera guy to shoot my workout videos was denied by my husband. No one was allowed to shoot videos of me. That’s why you could see me doing only short intros to the workouts having my camera on tripod. I was also doing some nutrition and diet posts, but I felt very limited by not having anyone to help me. We were both feeling overwhelmed by the change, because we were used to working together and we were very good at working together.
Things got very tough when his new girlfriend Lisa Marie came to the picture. While I thought that him having a new girlfriend, a person that will be there for him, will make things a lot easier, I was wrong. Up until then, we were friends, partners and we were getting along. If you were following BodyRock.Tv back then you must have noticed that I have basically vanished right after her very first post. In December 2011, Freddy’s attitude towards me changed completely. He became incredibly mean, he denied me an access to BodyRock.Tv and all the social media we’ve build together. Since I had no access to our Canadian business account, and owned only 49% of the company, I was relying on him to pay me monthly dividends. My future was completely in his hands. When I asked for my dividends he told me to first sign a non-compete agreement. What that means is that I wouldn’t be allowed to ever have my own fitness blog or to ever do a workout video online. I felt like I was being controlled again and threatened on top of that. It was never my intension to leave BodyRock.Tv. I was forced to leave to keep my independence and dignity. He told me to lawyer up and the last email I got from him stated exactly this: “I want you to sell the company car that your mom is using. Aww, isn’t it horrible that your mom that has nothing won’t even have the car?” That my friends right there was the end of our friendship. I couldn’t believe it. Of course I did not sell the car and my mom still has it.
What happened next is that he wrote a post on BodyRock.Tv that would portray me as a bad person that betrayed him in every possible way. He wrote that he was being forced and manipulated to write the post about us breaking up. That was the post with the picture of us sitting on the front step of the house in West Hollywood. Just to let you know, nobody was forcing him to write what he did. While I was pushing for him to post the truth about us not being a couple, he wanted to write it in his own words and told me not to let anyone know that I left him. I was fine with that.
At that time, I decided that I will not give up and that I will continue doing what I love and he or nobody else will ever stop me. I contacted Darren from Watch it now entertainment, explained him the entire situation and asked him if he wants to be my partner. We clicked as friends immediately and we were on the same page when it comes to fitness, blogging and my image as a trainer. I got hired by his company and got my work visa instantly. After that, you know the story. We started shooting ZWOWs and I tried to get back on my feet. I can never thank Darren and his team at Watch It Now Entertainment enough, who all helped me when I had absolutely nothing. I am also forever thankful to my boyfriend who stood by me the entire time and gave me the kind of love and home that I have always dreamed off.
I filed for divorce in January 2012, however I am still waiting for the divorce to happen, because my husband is way too power hungry and wants my 49% of BodyRock.Tv which he thinks is worth his signature on our divorce papers and nothing more. I was also threatened by a letter from his lawyer that I might be deported back to Czech Republic if I won’t stop doing ZWOWS and sign the non-compete agreement with BodyRock.Tv. I guess he assumed that I didn’t get my visa.
I have received way more abuse from him in the form of online bullying. He said so many bad things about me on his Facebook and other social media and I have never stood up for myself. For some weird reason I thought that he is really not that kind of person and that maybe he’s just very hurt that I left him. I thought that he is being like that because he’s probably suffering. Now it got to the point that I am hundred percent certain that all that crap he writes about me is his cover up to justify the fact that he took everything from me and have been actively trying to destroy my career and my online presence. Here he is again with another post trying to hurt me. He didn’t take the most important part of me though–my faith, love, and will power.
Private Member |
This is why I followed you away from body rock! Thankyou for being brave enough to tell ur side of the story! I so appreciate your creative differences from Freddie too zuzka, I like sexy but I also like working out with my seven year old nephew!! You are the best in the biz, never let anyone bring you down! So many people love you. Warriors unite!!
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Zuzana, I knew something was wrong when I didn’t see posts from you anymore on Bodyrock. I also was put off by Freddy’s new attitude toward you and all the petty comments he and his brother Sean would say on their facebook page. Then I noticed that you weren’t publicly reacting and I knew then that all the “poor me” stuff Freddy was spewing had to be complete crap. I found your new page and was very relieved. I missed your posts so much and I liked the fact that you didn’t sink down to a childish level to put down the bodyrock team like they were putting you down. I unliked Bodyrock a long time ago because the cleavage shots and sexualisation were to the point of being ridiculous and all of the fakeness of “love yourself as you are” when Lisa kept getting plastic surgery after plastic surgery was annoying me. I love what you do, I have been following you since 2010 and will continue to follow you as long as you make videos. You are the real deal and people need to know that. Thank you for posting this letter. Here is a blog post that also talks about how bodyrock has been in absolute decline since you were pushed out. http://blatherate.blogspot.ca/2012/11/my-bodyrock-breakup.html
I love you Z, keep your chin up 🙂
Private Member |
You should know by now that with the following that you currently have that we all love you and your fitness/health attitude! As for BodyRock.tv, it was never the same once you left. That may explain why you currently have the following that you do! You must also understand that once you hit YouTube, people googled you and we all know who you were before BodyRock.tv and who you are now. Which is an amazing person who has overcame a lot and has now succeeded in her endeavors. From now on just go thru the legal process in getting the divorce, have your attorneys workout the business ownership stuff and most of all stop worrying about what that ass has to blog about. Start enjoying yourself, you know we all love you sweetie…….So Please Have Fun and Smile!
Private Member |
You deserve a lot of respect for your strength.
Bodyrock.Tv and your website are here to motivate people to live a healthy lifestyle through diet and lifestyle. We all realize that going through divorce is never easy, but to have one person publically put out statements like Freddy has done is totally wrong and undermines the purpose of his website.
It is great to see that you have the support of a lot of people and thanks for all the help that you have given all of us. 🙂
Private Member |
Love u, z!! Sorry you felt the need to tell us your personal life but glad you are standing up for yourself. Dont listen to his threats and always do what is beat for you to feel safe and respected and happy. I always noticed that your bodyrock vids were very sexualized and that your new zwows are not. Good for you for wanting to make health videos appropriate for everyone.
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Zuzanna, I just want to thank you. My heart melted when I read this as I feel like I know your heart (even though I only know you online!). For years now you have been my inspiration as I work as a personal trainer and it was such a relief when I read that you disagreed with the way bodyrock was going! It was so hard for me to refer people to your site when it looked so… overly seductive. I love that you are now confident and happy in your appearance without the site relying on the boobs and bum! Keep it up babe, good always prevails! He’s just bitter and twisted and you sound like you’ve got a much better guy now!
Private Member |
please please please sue this guy for slander/libel whatever the case may be. and please keep believing that good always prevails, and that we have your back. i can’t believe what he is doing–seems unreal that such terrible people actually exist in real life
Private Member |
Zuzko jsi úžasná jen tak dál!!
Private Member |
Very sorry to hear this , just remember you have so
Many fans who support you , you are inspiring so many !! The past is gone new beginning ! Keep shining , life is beautiful so are you xoxo
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Simple as that : You’re better than him. That’s all. 🙂